Know when to say "NO"?
Have u ever wonder tat many a times, u actually said YES when u had wanted to say NO? "yesh, i do tis for u, but deep down, u kept on complaining n lamenting abt the fact tat it shld be no no and no!"
So think wisely b4 engaging urself in such a scenario, isnt it easier to say NO than Yes?
no is a 2-letter word wo.. some ppl appreciate ur deeds while some just took advantage of u gleefully. Is no a sensitive word to use? Nah, it just depicts ur rights and desire to choose.
I was a very nice guy last time, trying to accomodate everybody w/o realising tat i cant afford to sacrifice myself everytime for the expense of others?? definitely it feels gd to help out most of the time, but it sucks when u know tat ppl are just taking advantage of u. tats heinous.. haha
its good to hav frds, but its even worthwhile to hav good frds who care n share.
For some who gif unconditionally n u get to appreciate the efforts , pls do return the favour. Its not always take n take.. sometimes it feels gd when u gif.
Tat brings me to wat gabriel had said, tat his best frd is his wife. Cause she's the only one who gif unconditionally, but tats not frdship, tats love.
And in life, u get to choose tat one n only love, but u getta choose lotsa frdship even though it takes time to nurture n grow the seed. thus it pains when the seed u hav painstakingly grew has decayed.
Just being loud n arrogant akins to the dog who barks but never bites, as i believe it will always pay to be kind , one way or another. Tats why im into karma. Treat others as though u treat urself. Its easy to be the bad guy, but its tough to be a good one.
As i conclude, dun be shy to say no, just try it to ur boss, when he ask u to work, pls say no, " eh i gotta monitor the stock market manz.." hahaz. thk nuttin is more impt than financial independence now.. :P its the craze!! the rave!! ultimate sensational emotional adrenalin rush!!
Nooo to the bears n yessshh to the bulls!! Mooooooooo....
So think wisely b4 engaging urself in such a scenario, isnt it easier to say NO than Yes?
no is a 2-letter word wo.. some ppl appreciate ur deeds while some just took advantage of u gleefully. Is no a sensitive word to use? Nah, it just depicts ur rights and desire to choose.
I was a very nice guy last time, trying to accomodate everybody w/o realising tat i cant afford to sacrifice myself everytime for the expense of others?? definitely it feels gd to help out most of the time, but it sucks when u know tat ppl are just taking advantage of u. tats heinous.. haha
its good to hav frds, but its even worthwhile to hav good frds who care n share.
For some who gif unconditionally n u get to appreciate the efforts , pls do return the favour. Its not always take n take.. sometimes it feels gd when u gif.
Tat brings me to wat gabriel had said, tat his best frd is his wife. Cause she's the only one who gif unconditionally, but tats not frdship, tats love.
And in life, u get to choose tat one n only love, but u getta choose lotsa frdship even though it takes time to nurture n grow the seed. thus it pains when the seed u hav painstakingly grew has decayed.
Just being loud n arrogant akins to the dog who barks but never bites, as i believe it will always pay to be kind , one way or another. Tats why im into karma. Treat others as though u treat urself. Its easy to be the bad guy, but its tough to be a good one.
As i conclude, dun be shy to say no, just try it to ur boss, when he ask u to work, pls say no, " eh i gotta monitor the stock market manz.." hahaz. thk nuttin is more impt than financial independence now.. :P its the craze!! the rave!! ultimate sensational emotional adrenalin rush!!
Nooo to the bears n yessshh to the bulls!! Mooooooooo....
posted by impermance at 2:14 PM
1 Comments:
Sometimes.. when you want to say NO, it really depend where this question or instruction coming from..
And I said my NO to my career after almost 9 yrs in service... Its hard sometimes bro... its hard... but weight your opportunity cost... and face your fear...
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